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"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Because we don't think we will find something better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But when you really look at it, we live in a world full of "one thing ending and another thing replacing it." It's just our minds that keep us stuck always thinking about things that happened in the past. It's our minds that keep us out of living in the present moment.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And again...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Continue trusting your path.
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Because we don't think we will find something better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But when you really look at it, we live in a world full of "one thing ending and another thing replacing it." It's just our minds that keep us stuck always thinking about things that happened in the past. It's our minds that keep us out of living in the present moment.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And again...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be one of the best days of your life.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Continue trusting your path.
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