Friday, March 11, 2011

How To Get Along With Someone You Find Difficult

By Lily Benner


It is common to all of us in life at one point or another; you will find that there are some people that you can not get along with comfortably. In fact most of the time you meet you might end up fighting over and over again. It is not always easy for most people; others have been able to discover ways in which they can work out in order to be able to resolve these issues while others still face the same problem.

Don't worry that this trouble might last you for a lifetime; there are ways in which you can resolve such issues one way or another. Let us see what exactly can be done.

There are ways in which you can make life between you two to be it easy, you don't have to argue and abuse each other all the time, you can be able to look for ways to adapt with the situation by taking things positively.

This will be only possible if one of you takes the first step to smoothen things out between you two, now that you are aware of what you are supposed to do, try and smile to this person whom you find it very difficult to get along with, it's a matter of time and he shall be smiling back at you.

You do not always have to perceive things negatively, try out and work things between you two and you see what a tremendous change you are going to make and your life would be more comfortable.

Their is this person you might think off lets say John, most people do not find it easy to stay with him because of what he advocates for but the truth is you are the only one who is in good books with him.

Most people do not understand John because they do not know what he has been forced to face in life and that is the reason why he is crying for understanding yet because most people do not want to listen they perceive him to be the bad person.

You are able to get with him because you had the time to listen to him and hear out his grievances and understand why he is so bitter when he interacts with people, this might be the reason as to why you are not always in bad books with him. Remember dialogue is the only way out to make things to be good between you two.




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