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Life is like a box of chocolates, you dont know what youre gonna get. according to Tom Hanks in Forest Gump
In resolving our personal difficulties, we should form the habit of not shirking away from the curve balls that life throws at us.
Here are 6 tips to resolving difficulties
Deal with the what ifs Make a decision today to deal with the what ifs. The problem exists and worrying or dwelling on the what ifs wont get you anywhere. There will be times when things go wrong and it shouldnt give rise to any mudslinging or trading blames with people. Do yourself a favour, STOP THE WHAT IFS
Learn to be strong: Learning to handle difficulties in a matured manner equips us with the appropriate mindset to see things moving in a positive direction. We are able to deal with challenges this way because we refuse to allow pessimism cloud our thoughts. Being strong requires determination, decisiveness and will power to keep our focus on the results we intend to achieve from resolving our personal difficulties.
The sole purpose of every experience gained, is to make you a better person who can confidently face whatever life has to offer.
Being able to give little importance to yourself will enable you assess what you have, what you need to get and how to work hard achieving this. Underestimating your capabilities will make you a pitiful insecure individual.
Endeavour to seek wise counsel because circumstances are seen in different perspectives and several insights could be provided.
Make your move Once you have recognised the root of the problems, formulate a plan of action which will help you find a solution. Carefully weigh each pros and cons. Remember to tread lightly, for one little mistake might bring you back to square one. Be emboldened by the fact that you have armed yourself with the determination and strength of mind to surpass the difficulties you are facing. Also bear in mind you shouldnt lose sight of your purpose in life. If you get distracted from what you initially set out to do, then you may find it difficult getting back into the scheme of things.
What are you doing about the personal difficulties you are currently experiencing?
In resolving our personal difficulties, we should form the habit of not shirking away from the curve balls that life throws at us.
Here are 6 tips to resolving difficulties
Deal with the what ifs Make a decision today to deal with the what ifs. The problem exists and worrying or dwelling on the what ifs wont get you anywhere. There will be times when things go wrong and it shouldnt give rise to any mudslinging or trading blames with people. Do yourself a favour, STOP THE WHAT IFS
Learn to be strong: Learning to handle difficulties in a matured manner equips us with the appropriate mindset to see things moving in a positive direction. We are able to deal with challenges this way because we refuse to allow pessimism cloud our thoughts. Being strong requires determination, decisiveness and will power to keep our focus on the results we intend to achieve from resolving our personal difficulties.
The sole purpose of every experience gained, is to make you a better person who can confidently face whatever life has to offer.
Being able to give little importance to yourself will enable you assess what you have, what you need to get and how to work hard achieving this. Underestimating your capabilities will make you a pitiful insecure individual.
Endeavour to seek wise counsel because circumstances are seen in different perspectives and several insights could be provided.
Make your move Once you have recognised the root of the problems, formulate a plan of action which will help you find a solution. Carefully weigh each pros and cons. Remember to tread lightly, for one little mistake might bring you back to square one. Be emboldened by the fact that you have armed yourself with the determination and strength of mind to surpass the difficulties you are facing. Also bear in mind you shouldnt lose sight of your purpose in life. If you get distracted from what you initially set out to do, then you may find it difficult getting back into the scheme of things.
What are you doing about the personal difficulties you are currently experiencing?
About the Author:
Ayo Olaniyan is a certified Unitive Life Coach and Counsellor. He is a member of the European Mentoring and Coaching Council, an accredited professional counsellor with the Counselling Society.You can viewthe blog Discovering Purposeto read or subscribe to personal development articles. Establish a fulfilling life through personal development.
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