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After struggling for a while at a relationship or problem we can have a breakthrough. They feel great. When we've been dealing with a problem for a while and it goes away or resolves or we get what we want, it is very affirming.
There are many ways to create breakthroughs in our lives. This article will focus on two of them. The first method is to acknowledge the breakdown. Acknowledge the problem. Call it for what it is.
So if you are feeling stale, like your life is in a rut or routine that is not very enlivening, that is a breakdown. But instead of blaming your significant other or your job, and instead of bitching and complaining at bars about your life, you can just acknowledge the breakdown.
If you are unhappy in your relationship, admitting what the issues are frankly, without blaming, is a great start to fixing them. Once you've acknowledged a breakdown, you can focus more clearly on dealing with it. You'll be surprised how well this works.
Try this out for yourself right now. Where in your life are you unhappy? Where are you stuck and not getting what you need?
Another way to approach this issue and having breakthroughs is to ask yourself one powerful question. This one question can get to the heart of problems and set you up for more speedy breakthroughs. The questions is: What in my life shouldn't be the way that it is?
When you can ask yourself that question, you will start to get a list of answers. All of the answers are clues to breakdowns and potential breakthroughs. My job should be more exciting. I should have more money. If those are your first answers to that question, then you now have possibility and potential. You have acknowledged the breakdown. You have admitted a problem.
Now you can focus on the issue. Now you can see if you want to work on that problem. Now you have alerted the universe that you want something to happen. Now you are set up for a breakthrough. There is much more to this, but these two things will get you in the area of breakthroughs.
There are many ways to create breakthroughs in our lives. This article will focus on two of them. The first method is to acknowledge the breakdown. Acknowledge the problem. Call it for what it is.
So if you are feeling stale, like your life is in a rut or routine that is not very enlivening, that is a breakdown. But instead of blaming your significant other or your job, and instead of bitching and complaining at bars about your life, you can just acknowledge the breakdown.
If you are unhappy in your relationship, admitting what the issues are frankly, without blaming, is a great start to fixing them. Once you've acknowledged a breakdown, you can focus more clearly on dealing with it. You'll be surprised how well this works.
Try this out for yourself right now. Where in your life are you unhappy? Where are you stuck and not getting what you need?
Another way to approach this issue and having breakthroughs is to ask yourself one powerful question. This one question can get to the heart of problems and set you up for more speedy breakthroughs. The questions is: What in my life shouldn't be the way that it is?
When you can ask yourself that question, you will start to get a list of answers. All of the answers are clues to breakdowns and potential breakthroughs. My job should be more exciting. I should have more money. If those are your first answers to that question, then you now have possibility and potential. You have acknowledged the breakdown. You have admitted a problem.
Now you can focus on the issue. Now you can see if you want to work on that problem. Now you have alerted the universe that you want something to happen. Now you are set up for a breakthrough. There is much more to this, but these two things will get you in the area of breakthroughs.
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You can learn some powerful insights in a free course at Wisdom Insights. Hans S Laney teaches wisdom courses and you can learn more at Words Of Wisdom.
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