Sunday, February 6, 2011

Ways To Stop A Relationship From Becoming Dull

By Anna Perry


In a relationship, there will always come a time when it becomes a bit boring and everything starts to become a routine. Your partner might notice it first or you might notice it first but the good thing about it is that you can do something to prevent fallout from happening. Here are some of the things you can do.

Remember to give importance to your partner. Always have him on your priority list of the day. If work usually gets in the way, make sure that you have reserved at least the lunch time or the coffee break to visit him or give him a phone call to remind him that he is important too.

Take good care of yourself. If you don't, chances are you will have lesser energy by the time your partner arrives. Take care of yourself. Eat well and do exercises. Spend time with your friends so that you will be updated with what is happening around you. These are just the simple things that will bring positivity back into your life thus avoiding a relationship slump.

Flatter your partner. This will inspire him to do well with his life. We are always on the hunt for someone who appreciates everything we do. We tend to flatter people around us hoping that they will return the favor. Do this to your partner too.

Try to take some time to have fun and make a fool out of yourselves. Try going to the beach with nothing but your own clothes. Or ambush your partner right before he goes off from his work and take him out to a nearest motel. This livens up your relationship.

As a couple, you always talk about plans and what to do over the weekend. If you have time, try to talk to your partner about your life plans in the future. Ask him what his life plans are and see if it includes you. You will get a glimpse of how he sees his life and how he manages it to get to that dream.

Give him something special, whether it would be a simple dinner with his favorite food or a movie date showing his favorite movie. This will remind him of the things he loves the most and that he is doing with together with the person he loves the most.

Never pass up a chance to talk to your partner and tell him that you really love and care for him. Although it might be just simple words but the thought and the actions really reveal what you truly feel.




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