Saturday, March 19, 2011

Understanding As The Key To A Good Friendship With Others

By Ruth Cameron


It is a part of everyone's life that there is always a person you have problems with. Due to some reasons, sometimes the children or the teachers do not fit our nature. Some people have already found how to deal with such problems and some are still trying to find solutions.

There are many ways to solve such problems. Easy solutions are also available to tackle the issues.

There are usually two choices for us. One is that we should accept this reality that we have to face and deal with them and other one is to mold the things according to our desires. It's far better to be optimistic and look towards the bright side of situation rather than spoiling it with criticizing comments or rude expression.

The other problem is that nobody wants to lose their pride and take the first step of friendship. All we need to do is to stay calm and every time you see him, just pass on a quick smile. Sometime he may smile back to you in return also.

People who do not understand you or don't get along with you are not always the villains. We must try a different way. It might see a crazy idea but it just can work and you will be thrilled with the outcome.

Let's suppose, there is a person named Martin who has indeterminate personality. He always remains in a bad mood. People do not feel comfortable with his bad attitude but you are the only one who can understand and bear his attitude.

The reason for the ill-tempered nature of Martin is that he had faced many difficulties in life and people have not treated him well. He wants the people to be good with him but he gets no positive response.

You can understand Martin's rude nature because you might have faced a similar type of problem in your life too. The difficulties and complexities of life change the nature of people and they behave in an irritating way.




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