Friday, March 4, 2011

Advice To Act As An Ideal Step-Parent

By Mary W. Gilmore


It's a ridiculous reality to suffer the step parents, and it's more difficult to act and behave as a step parent for the children who are not your own. Sometimes, you can feel guilty and your mind may not accept the circumstances that you are facing or being faced in the future.

There are some good ways to keep a good relationship with kids and to satisfy your new partner happy. Try to give time to the kids and your new life partner and don't realize them that their parent is no longer with them. Do all things in that manner so that they feel reality.

Try to negotiate with your new family and do that things which they really want, give your kids the option that whatever you want to call me and try to do things together and make good memories with your new family.

Ask from the kids that what they really want and what they really like to do. Always try to do things with care and deal them with love. Ask from them and lead them and direct them but do not force them to do as you want.

When your step children are above fourteen don't force them, it is the responsibility of their real parent to maintain disciple. Try to do such activities which create more interest between you and your step children.

All these activities can create a good relationship between kids and you. You have to do planning to give good suggestions for your children. Kids want good suggestions from adult, and they want their parent around us.

When you become a part of a new family they might ask a different and tricky question so you have to think before you give any suggestion and this will provide you help in maintaining a good relationship with your step children.

Give time to your new partner for the better relationship between. Don't give more time and preference to your children it creates conflict between you and your life partner if this occurs this will lead toward negativity.




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