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You may have met people as co-workers or bullies that are very difficult to get along with other people. But this does not mean that it is impossible to get along with when you know them.
Unless you just swallow your pride and maintain your cool it may be impossible to interact with them normally. But simply not facing the issue or leaving the issue is not the only way out.
Just brace yourself or smile back at them. These are some of the different ways people have been taught in dealing with such people. However, when you beam at them you create a more positive angle. And this is what is preferred.
By just smiling you may clear the tension and get the ball rolling though it may seem unreasonable. But when you smile let it be genuine, thinking about whatever part you like about them might help. And just may be they might beam back.
Though it may demand a lot from yourself you have to remember that they are not evil any way. Once you dig past their surface you may be amazed by what you find.
Try to do something that no one or not many have done by trying to get along with such people .become the exception to the rule "it is easy to dislike peter because he is arrogant and abrasive" try liking him.
You know that his arrogance is because he is insecure and he is trying to deal with being at a new place and the people making him nervous.
In knowing a person and understanding where they are coming from it become very hard to hate them and such a person seizes to be the bad picture you had painted about them and turns into a person with real concerns. For we hate what we do not understand and do not lead us anywhere/butt in only take a little patience and heart to really see through those we do not understand to find out whom they really are.
Unless you just swallow your pride and maintain your cool it may be impossible to interact with them normally. But simply not facing the issue or leaving the issue is not the only way out.
Just brace yourself or smile back at them. These are some of the different ways people have been taught in dealing with such people. However, when you beam at them you create a more positive angle. And this is what is preferred.
By just smiling you may clear the tension and get the ball rolling though it may seem unreasonable. But when you smile let it be genuine, thinking about whatever part you like about them might help. And just may be they might beam back.
Though it may demand a lot from yourself you have to remember that they are not evil any way. Once you dig past their surface you may be amazed by what you find.
Try to do something that no one or not many have done by trying to get along with such people .become the exception to the rule "it is easy to dislike peter because he is arrogant and abrasive" try liking him.
You know that his arrogance is because he is insecure and he is trying to deal with being at a new place and the people making him nervous.
In knowing a person and understanding where they are coming from it become very hard to hate them and such a person seizes to be the bad picture you had painted about them and turns into a person with real concerns. For we hate what we do not understand and do not lead us anywhere/butt in only take a little patience and heart to really see through those we do not understand to find out whom they really are.
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