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For some, simply breathing and living your life irritates them. There are people who are just too annoyed by your existence that they hate every fiber of your being. They hate you right down to your core even if you have done nothing wrong to them. So, how do you deal with these types of people?
Do not react. Everything you do will simply make them angry so it is much better that you do not add more insult to injury by making no side comments or even double meaning comments. It is much better that you leave them fuming with rage than do something about it.
In order for you to subdue someone who is irate and annoyed by the things you do, try an approach that reflects them. If they are annoyed by the way you talk to people, and then let them speak up and tell them that we all speak differently and that they should try to respect that.
Although you might want to yell back at someone who is currently yelling foul words at you, it is advisable that you resist the urge and lower your voice. By lowering your voice, you make the other person aware that he is raising his own voice.
Practice calming yourself down or extending your patience. The more you practice doing this the more you are able to hold off telling people off or yelling people with nasty attitude.
Be able to know your limits when you are dealing with these kind of people. When they try to pull you down, you should know when they are stepping on your turf and when to take back what is yours but always practice patience first before you do something else.
If the situation goes out of hand and there are instances that become out of your control, it is better that you pray and ask for guidance. This will help you emotionally and spiritually even socially as you will be a guide for other people who are also experiencing this situation.
Lastly, talk to someone and vent your feelings against such hostility. When talking to your friends and family, try not to use foul words or even degrade these people. Instead, ask them what you have done to deserve such hostility.
Do not react. Everything you do will simply make them angry so it is much better that you do not add more insult to injury by making no side comments or even double meaning comments. It is much better that you leave them fuming with rage than do something about it.
In order for you to subdue someone who is irate and annoyed by the things you do, try an approach that reflects them. If they are annoyed by the way you talk to people, and then let them speak up and tell them that we all speak differently and that they should try to respect that.
Although you might want to yell back at someone who is currently yelling foul words at you, it is advisable that you resist the urge and lower your voice. By lowering your voice, you make the other person aware that he is raising his own voice.
Practice calming yourself down or extending your patience. The more you practice doing this the more you are able to hold off telling people off or yelling people with nasty attitude.
Be able to know your limits when you are dealing with these kind of people. When they try to pull you down, you should know when they are stepping on your turf and when to take back what is yours but always practice patience first before you do something else.
If the situation goes out of hand and there are instances that become out of your control, it is better that you pray and ask for guidance. This will help you emotionally and spiritually even socially as you will be a guide for other people who are also experiencing this situation.
Lastly, talk to someone and vent your feelings against such hostility. When talking to your friends and family, try not to use foul words or even degrade these people. Instead, ask them what you have done to deserve such hostility.
About the Author:
Besides dealing with difficult people, the author also frequently publishes information on golf drivers and golf belly putters.
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