Saturday, February 5, 2011

Fatherhood Is A Pretty Difficult Role When A Baby Comes Into A Household

By Jerry Matthews


When a baby comes into a household, mothers usually are the ones who have gotten advice from other mothers and various resources. There is no focus on the dad's role and usually almost forgotten about and may wonder what to do with the baby.

Take the plunge and play with your baby. Babies may seem fragile but they are pretty flexible. You will learn what you can and can't do with them just by observation. Make them a part of what you do every day at home.

Communicate your feelings with you wife. Mothers are not the only ones who can have mood fluctuations when their lives change so dramatically. This has been confirmed by recent research.

As a new dad, you will benefit by being able to discuss your gamut of emotions with your spouse. Both will benefit if you are able to detect post partum depression and get professional help. Know its symptoms.

Breastfeeding mothers need a husband's support. Breastfeeding is very important to a baby's health. Those mothers who have gotten support from their husbands will stick with it longer.

Husbands may not be able to breastfeed but they can do many other things. Remember what you can do and not what you can't. New babies require attention in changing diapers, bathing, and cleaning up a lot of linen. Dads can certainly do these things.

Dads need to know they can ask for assistance with basic to more complicated needs when it comes to taking care of the baby. This help can come from family or friends or even from professionals such as psychologists and lactation consultants.

The first few weeks after the birth of a baby are a time of recovery for the mother. Keep this in mind and give her extra support and patience during this time. This is a great time to add a little romantic flair.

New fathers do not have it easy but it helps to have some tips in mind before you get there.




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