Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Show Off Your Charismatic Style: Conversation Tips

By Ilechukwu Magnus


So, you are just stepping outside with your new dress suit when the woman of your dreams walk by. What do you do? Do you stand transfixed watching her or do you walk up to her and strike up a conversation? If you are like most guys, the thought of approaching an attractive stranger, and actually conversing with her, is just too difficult to even consider.

It doesn't have to be though. Have you ever seen Hitch? Will Smith knew exactly what he needed to do to bring his charisma to the lime light so to get any women dreaming about him.

While it is necessary you start with "Hello", here are other vital conversation tips you can use to ride a young woman you are interested in.

How To Converse With Women

Ensure That Your Compliments Are Sincere- Almost every man uses compliments as an opening line. However, standing there in a suave suit and choking out a tired line like, "You have a pretty smile," is lame. Instead of saying something she probably have heard ten times before meeting you that day, you can say something complimentary and unique like "I never thought of that! You've made a really smart point there"

Why Not Nod?- One of the simplest ways to show a women that you are paying attention to what she is saying is by nodding. Doing so; you are not only improving the affinity between the women and you but also encouraging her to speak further. Think about those times when a politician walks a room. Politicians know how to create a strong connection with those they come in contact with starting with a warm handshake accompanied with a pleasant smile and nods. Don't think you can't do this also.

If you really want to sweep her off her feet, don't start the conversation by pushing her buttons; this way, you will burn your bridge before you even have the chance to do that. If you have listened to your mom those days when she use to advice you, avoid religion and politics in conversation; now is a good time to observe this.

Don't Stick With One Conversation- One of the troubles most men have while conversing with a young women they are interested in is not knowing what to talk about. It is easy to overcome this relationship killer by taking advantage of your interests and hers. Like to play sports? Does she have any brothers and sisters? Are you from the city or was your childhood in the country? By changing the topic every now and then, you can keep the conversation going and prevent it from becoming stale.

Wearing a quality black suit and a tie is not all there is to sweeping a girl off her feet. While it is necessary you look the part of a nice gentleman, you should act the part too. Use these helpful tips to show off your own charisma and spark an interesting conversation with a woman you like.




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