Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Challenges In Reshaping Your Life

By Janet Olson


Living today means juggling so many different areas and some of these are to do with relationships in the family and even at work. Reshaping your life takes commitment to make the changes that one feels intuitively. Apart from this, one just knows when this is required but making them proves difficult.

The reason for this is that change is just that change. People being habitual creatures too do not like it and bringing about change is just something that is shelved to a later date and invariably one never gets around to it. It is best to bring about this in a gradual process rather than make final definite changes that can leave one disappointed with themselves.

Then there are relationship problems or ones that are just not going the way one foresaw. Time and again many get locked into relationships that are not healthy for the fear of losing that person and moving on. If the relationship is stagnating or just an unhealthy one then ways must be found and explored or in the worst case scenario, cut ties and get on with it.

They can become convenient and while this is so, one still feels that something is lacking. This is usually love and not feeling cared for in the relationship especially if one is the one that always has to make the effort to do chores, clean up, make up the beds and many more tasks that go with living together. This can frustrate a person especially when a partner does not reciprocate and leaves the housework to the other.

This is why it is so important to keep communication channels open and to find ways to make relationships exciting, loving, caring and nurturing. When feeling neglected this often goes unheard until a fight breaks out and one finds oneself wanting some sort of outlet. It is best at times such as these to seek professional counsellors to help with problems such as these.

If one feels that things are just flowing from one day into the next and boredom sets in, it is time to make changes. Feeling apathetic is not a good sign that one is living it to the fullest and action is needed immediately. A person knows what those changes should be but taking them and implementing them is often neglected.

If all else fails, being patient is important in finding solutions to ongoing problems. This could be something as simple as a change of diet and feeling good about oneself once again and with it, empowering oneself to higher goals. This takes effort but with time can be achieved if it is done in the correct manner.

It is always time to listen and be mindful of that inner voice. It is usually never wrong and bringing about change is just what is needed in order to live a more fulfilling lifestyle. The time is now so it is best not to wait.




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