Friday, September 28, 2012

You Too Can Become Great With Ladies!

By Nathaniel Gray


Would you like to become good with girls? Does being able to approach and flirt with any girl in any place excites you? If it resonates with you, you need to check out this article and follow the advice from it to become a player! Here are 3 most vital things you need to know if you'd like to become successful with ladies.

1. Practice makes perfect

Mastering the art of how to talk to women takes time. It's very difficult, if not impossible, to become a good conversationalist in a few days. It takes at least 50 approaches to get really good and develop a skill to chat with any person about everything and nothing.

The same applies to approaching females and picking them up. The more approaches you do, the more effective you are. If you currently aren't able to approach women, it's time to widen your comfort zone and force yourself to do it. The first approaches are extremely hard but after you deal with that fear, you should have courage to approach females in most situations. Try doing at minimum 50 approaches and you probably won't have a lot of problems with that!

2. Stop caring about rejection

Most guys are aren't able to approach women because they are afraid of being rejected. If a woman rejects you, what you do expect to happen? Will it kill you? Stop obsessing over what females think about you. If a female says "no, thanks", she just isn't interested, there's nothing else to that. There is nothing wrong with you as a man, she just doesn't find you attractive.

Approaching girls should be a fun thing to do. Stop thinking about the outcome and put an end to your obsession over being rejected and just leave your home to enjoy yourself!

3. Solve problems in your personal life before you work on your skills with girls

Improve yourself first. If you experience any difficult problems in your everyday life, getting a girlfriend won't fix your problems. If you're obese, improve your diet and hit the gym. If you're in a bad financial situation, find a way to earn more. If you aren't sure what you want to do in life, find your passions first. Approaching females won't solve your other problems.

Don't forget that it's extremely hard to keep women around you if they realize that you're a fake. You need to have a great life without women first - only then you will experience a permanent change and ladies will want to spend time with you.

Do you know what to do now? Change your life - leave your home and follow the tips as soon as possible. You too can become extremely good with women - it's just a matter of time and a boatload of hard work. Good luck and don't forget to work on your skills until you achieve what you want to achieve!




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