Sunday, April 14, 2013

How You Can Encircle Yourself with Positive Individuals

By Hal Neff


One of the best ways to achieve your goals would be to encircle yourself with positive people. The power these individuals have never seems to let them down, and they are reaching the great objectives in life that they desire and dream of.

Optimistic individuals can help you keep on track and energize you towards your own goals. Many times these successful people share the same goals you have and are happy to pass on their knowledge and their strategies.

So how do you find these optimistic, like-minded individuals?

Here are 5 ideas to help you find them, network with them, and glean valuable details and suggestions:

1 . Smile. Although it might sound silly, smiling puts forth a picture that immediately draws individuals towards you, especially other positive individuals. Having and showcasing a good perspective of life's ups and downs makes other people want to be around you. Positivism is usually a challenging mindset to sustain all the time, and therefore, individuals are always searching for a way to be more optimistic.

* Staying positive is the foundation of reaching your successes, as its opposite is futile. Smile and you'll appeal to other optimistic people!

2 . Connect Positively. Even though we all have difficult days when nothing seems to be going right, the last thing you want do is grumble and whine. Nobody likes a complainer, right?

For instance , if a person were to ask you in a friendly way, "how are you today? " do not shoot back that "life stinks" or that you are just "alive" or something to that effect. Rather, take a moment - and a breath - and then response with optimism, even though you're having a hard day. After all, positive individuals don't waste their time or strength on complainers or pessimistic people.

* Even if you are not feeling all that optimistic, by staying positive in your perspective you'll still attract positive individuals to you.

3. Think Positively. Maintaining an even head on your journey toward success is one key to obtaining your objectives. Thinking positively - even through failure - will certainly enable you to discover the good in every circumstance and attract the positive people who share this vision.

* Even though you don't truly subscribe to these optimistic thoughts in the beginning, or you find optimistic thinking difficult, sooner or later making yourself think positively will make a design of positive thoughts in your brain.

We have all got energy within us and we have the choice to apply it constructively or destructively. If you would like attract positive people to network, then you'll notice they try to be upbeat and optimistic, even during challenging times.

4. Act Positively. It isn't enough to smile, communicate, and think positively when chasing your goal. You should also put forth actions to substantiate this positivism.

For instance , maybe you thought you can get a promotion in the past, but then sat idly by while somebody else snatched it up. This time, transform those optimistic thoughts into action!

* Showing your boss and employees that you are proactive and optimistic will set you up for more successes.

5. Reach Out. Lastly, reach out to people at your work, in your circle of friends, or even to people on the street who seem to display positivism. Ask them what it is that makes them continue to be positive and reach their own objectives.

* Seeking out optimistic people will not only give you valuable information to assist you reach your objectives, but you will also be a successful individual with your own network of positive friends and role models.

Being positive and exemplifying positivism attracts other people. After all, like attracts like.

People enjoy being around other people with similar attitudes and, by maintaining a positive attitude, you will certainly lead yourself to those successful individuals you seek.




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