Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Tips For Dealing With Caregiver Stress

By Kelly Wood


Caregiver stress is becoming a major issue in our modern world. With people living longer, there is an even greater need for people to care for those who cannot take care of themselves. Those caregivers are in danger of having their own mental, physical, and emotional issues.

A caregiver is anyone who provides help to someone who cannot function on their own to do regular daily tasks. Most are unpaid and are related to the person for whom they give care. It is estimated that at least forty-five million people are functioning as caregivers today, with some saying it may be several million more. It usually involves taking care of an elderly family member, but it can also be a parent taking care of a disabled child.

At some point in their lives almost everyone will face this job. The majority are women and some have an outside job in addition to looking after their loved one. Those who work usually have to make significant adjustments to their work schedule. It might even be wise to talk with your employer about taking some unpaid leave so that your stress level does not go too high.

This job can obviously lead to much strain for the caregivers. Many report feeling emotions like guilt, frustration, and anger. Their social lives often suffer. They often feel exhausted and overwhelmed by the situation,

One negative outcome is that those who take care of others for an extended period of time are likely to eventually suffer serious medical issues of their own. They are much more likely to suffer problems like depression and heart disease. When they do become ill, they seem to take longer to recuperate.

Solutions are available for these stress issues. It is often quite helpful to talk to either a psychologist or a counselor. Also seek advice from your own primary medical provider. Many medical offices now offer training classes that teach how to care for patients with specific medical issues like dementia. Always take help from others when it is offered. You may feel like you are responsible for everything, but this does not have to be the case. Make a list of priorities and set realistic goals for yourself. When appropriate, discuss your situation with other family members. You may find that they are more than willing to lend a helping hand. Be sure to set aside some time just for you. Keep in touch with friends. Only by taking care of yourself, can you be at your best to help someone else.

Even though the stress can be high for this responsibility, you can also reap many positive rewards. Many feel like they are giving back and that they are truly needed. Some even report gaining a better and stronger relationship for the loved one.

Caregiver stress can have a big impact on a person. However, if you check in your community and state, you may find that there are several agencies that can give both you and the one you care for some necessary aid. Go to your local Area Agency on Aging. They have many resources available. Also consider things like respite care or adult day care to make your own life a little less stressful. Do not be afraid to take advantages of these resources.




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