Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Advice On How To Be Confident

By Clare Turner


Every person in the world has flaws. These may come as birth marks or other defects that may be very uncomfortable to bear. Although one may not be physically appealing or active socially there is no reason that he or she should be uneasy around other people. The following points on how to be confident can be of help to people who shy away from situations that require them to face other human beings.

Never let depression weigh you down just because you are faced with difficult situations. Instead look for alternative outdoor activities that can help to disrupt your mind for some time. These activities may be sport related or recreational activities such as pottery which help to reduce stress and give someone a chance of making more friends.

Another characteristic of confident persons is the fact that they are fully aware of their personality. They are people who exhibit passion in doing the things they love the most and are never afraid to speak out on such topics. Passion is the reason why people enjoy performing in sports and other activities that may not make sense to others.

Some people like making jokes that tend to put others down. When faced with such a situation always try to stand up for you. Speaking out for oneself shows that you are comfortable in your skin and would rather be nothing else. People respond positively to someone who can firmly stand up for himself and take no nonsense from bullies.

Positivity is vital in maintaining self confidence. Never concentrate your thoughts on the negative perceptions others may have of you. Instead one may delegate his thoughts on himself and try being happy with them. Accepting compliments is another way of showing that you accept yourself and are happy of how you look.

Confident persons are never afraid of airing out there views. They are the kind of people who are convinced that they always have something important to pass on. So do not doubt your say on any topic but instead leave it for others to decide whether your contribution is interesting and worth listening to or not.

Never try to hide your individually for any reason. Instead celebrate being part of the diverse differences that we exhibit as human beings. This is a sure way of how to be confident and happy.




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