Thursday, March 10, 2011

How To Easily Walk Away From Your Ex

By Lea Winters


Is there a credible means of measuring whether the foundation of your relationship really is stable and everything is working for you? The truth is that there is no way to get this information. Normally, by the time you are aware that things in your relationship are going down; your relationship is already half past over.

People will normally let things slide whenever they are injured for the first time. When the relationship hurts, many people seek to hide under the false security of compromise rather than break up. This is a sure recipe to ensure that the cycle repeats itself.

If you think about it, what other explanation is there as to why somebody will want to carry on in an abusive relationship, other than for reasons to do with love? The reasons that may come are normally self serving or one sided. There are a few others who are in toxic ones but do not admit.

Choosing to remain in an abusive relationship is a warrant to destruction. No sane person can be okay staying in a self serving relationship like that. It is a display of weakness instead of strength.

If you can master the strength to walk out of a partnership of this degree, you are oozing with hunger to redeem yourself. It is showing that it is high time you got out of one sided ones that do not bear much fruit. No human being deserves to be treated like that by someone they love.

When a partner has consistently shown wild abuse, they are beyond reasoning. Do not try to use talking as a means to reconciliation. The cycle is likely to repeat itself unannounced.

When you choose to walk away from that relationship, do it in completion and you can also walk away from his circle of friends.

Your safety matters more than the sentiments surrounding your walking out of the emotional and physical torture. This is what you have to let your ex's friends see in case they wonder.




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