Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Points For A Successful Date

By Timothy A. Secrest


There are so many people who are missing out on good relationships because they have this picture of dating that is scary and grueling to go through. It does not have to be like this no matter who you are and what kind of person it is that you are looking for. Here are a couple of tips for you.

One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people make once they have a chance to begin contacting somebody they may date is that they go overboard with the texts, calls and emails. This makes them crowd the person they want to date and also come across as being very desperate. Try to keep your contacting to a reasonable level; don't overdo it.

If you are just coming out of a relationship with someone of a certain type of personality, then for your next relationship to work you should try somebody with a totally different kind of personality. Doing the same wrong thing over and over again and expecting different results is the height of stupidity.

Once you have established a rapport with the person, make sure to try as much as possible to never tell lies. Lies at the beginning of the relationship are a big sign of what lies ahead in the future so avoid them.

Another problem with lying to make a good impression on your date is that once you have made them believe your lie then you will have to keep up the facade forever and you will never be able to be yourself in the relationship.

Once you have begun regularly dating, it is in your own best interests to not forget about all the other things that you used to do by yourself. Do not let dating rob you of all of the other pleasures.

Taking the time out from dating to go do all these other pleasurable activities will keep the two of you from getting bored with each other too quickly.

Last but not least, the biggest mistake a lot of people make is going for a date with somebody who is genuinely interested in them but instead of giving them all your attention, you are busy with other things like your cell phone or even other people in the room. Avoid this at all costs.




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