Tuesday, January 3, 2012

You Can Become An Expert On Self Esteem After Reading This

By Kurt Gabler


You should know that the human ego is not present only in adults; children also have an ego that needs to be stroked with the utmost wisdom to bring out the best of the child.

Confidence and self esteem help to enhance the social skills of your children; engaging them in various social activities such as camping, sports and the lives can help them polish their social skills. You can prevent a host of social and psychological illnesses such as depression or schizophrenia by fostering a high level of confidence and self esteem in your kids early in their lives.

Self esteem is all about perception; you have the ability to help your children perceive things in either a negative or positive light by the way you relate to them...the choice of course, is yours. Always remember that it is the little things that count; displaying your child's first 'A' on the refrigerator or hanging his/her first attempt at painting on the living room wall can impact greatly on a child.

Mentally handicapped kids who have a learning defect also need to feel good about themselves...in fact, they need more than an extra boost in their level of self confidence than other normal children do....some kids with this defect have been known to become well because of their parents belief in them. Building self esteem can be a fun game instead of a nerve racking your child doing things together can make life interesting and help your child know that you value his/her opinions.

Get your child to stand in front of a mirror and examine herself or himself and repeat words that boost his/her morale; the essence of this exercise is to imprint a positive self image in the mind of the child.




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