Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Law on Human Attraction:Does it Exist?

By Tom Nikenya


According to the law of human attraction, two folk of different sex are attracted to one another. It sounds peculiar because such rules are only relevant in electromagnetism. This raises concerns if it is good to fall for one another, and what lies behind a cheating boyfriend.

Is attraction a case of chemistry?

Scientists have found out that the attraction is brought about by pheromones. They have studied the effects of the pheromones and they found out that it's responsible for communication. An instance of a pheromone is the skunk's odour that protects it from enemies. It is said that some apes species rub urine that contains pheromone on the feet of mate so that they attract them.

The scientists have further said that female animals send chemical signals that attract male of their species. The male species are informed that the genes are different. Actually, pheromones are used now to make perfumes so the one using it attracts the other sex. This has led to hunting down animals for the chemicals.

Scientists are now trying to figure out whether pheromones also exist in human beings. Most scientists have ruled out the possibility that these chemicals exist in human beings. However, they are now considering a likelihood of its existence after getting other suggestions from Swiss researchers headed by Klaus Wedekind.

They came up with an experiment whereby women on their ovulation period were told to sniff men's cotton shirt. They concluded that ladies loved the smell of the shirts belonging to genetically different men. But they said that it depends on the perfume and the food that the man eats.

Does personality figure in sexual attraction?

According to a Klohen, E.C, & S.Luo, the human attraction to the opposite sex in hypothetical scenarios is determined by one's sense of self-security and the perception. This shows that it's somebody's personality that attracts you to him/her. Aside from personality, the perception is another factor that will attract you to her or him. It takes time to study the character of your partner.

How does attraction figure in relationships?

Attraction is the first step before getting into a serious relationship. Nevertheless, attraction alone doesn't guarantee a good relationship. Attraction is only there to help you notice a partner. For your relationship to be long, there is need for shared dreams and values.

Should I stop trying to become attractive?

Apart from working on your physical looks, also work on spiritual, emotional and psychological aspects. Physical attraction is a precursor to date. When selecting a partner it is generally recommended that you get guidance from a doctor so that you get a partner with healthy genes.

You should know how she handles her emotions because you won't want to live with somebody who feels insecure. Be yourself. You do not have to pretend so that you please your partner. Human attraction will be a consequence and not an end when you are fit in all aspects.




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