Thursday, August 2, 2012

Law on Human Attraction:Does it Exist?

By Tom Nikenya


According to the law of human attraction, two people of different sex are attracted to one another. It sounds strange because such rules are only applicable in electromagnetism. This raises concerns whether it is good to fall for one another, and what lies behind a cheating boyfriend.

Is attraction a matter of chemistry?

Scientists have found out that the attraction is caused by pheromones. They have studied the effects of the pheromones and they found out that it's responsible for communication. An example of a pheromone is the skunk's odour that is responsible for protecting it from enemies. It is said that some apes species rub urine that contains pheromone on the feet of mate so as to attract them.

The scientists have also said that female animals send chemical signals that attract male of their species. The male species are informed that the genes are not the same. In fact, pheromones are used now to make perfumes so that the one using it attracts the opposite sex. This has led to hunting down animals for the chemicals.

Scientists are now trying to figure out whether pheromones also exist in humans. Most scientists have ruled out the possibility that these chemicals exist in human beings. Nevertheless, they are now considering a likelihood of its existence after getting other suggestions from Swiss researchers led by Klaus Wedekind.

They came up with an experiment whereby women on their ovulation period were told to sniff men's cotton shirt. They concluded that ladies liked the scent of the shirts belonging to genetically different men. But they said that it depends on the perfume and the food the man eats.

Does character figure in sexual attraction?

According to a Klohen, E.C, & S.Luo, the human attraction to the opposite sex in hypothetical situations is determined by one's sense of self-security and the perception. This shows that it's someone's character that attracts you to him or her. Aside from personality, the perception is another factor that'll attract you to her or him. It takes time to study the personality of your partner.

How does attraction figure in relationships?

Attraction is the first step before jumping into a serious relationship. Nonetheless, attraction alone does not guarantee a good relationship. Attraction is only there to help you notice a partner. For your relationship to be long, there is need for shared dreams and values.

Should I stop making an attempt to become attractive?

Apart from working on your physical looks, also work on spiritual, emotional and mental aspects. Physical attraction is a precursor to date. When choosing a partner it is recommended that you get guidance from a doctor so you get a partner with healthy genes.

You ought to know how she handles her emotions because you won't want to live with someone who feels insecure. Be yourself. You don't have to pretend so that you please your partner. Human attraction will be a consequence and not an end when you are fit in all aspects.




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