Saturday, April 6, 2013

List Of Life Lessons For Everyone

By Leola Walls


There is an invisible list of life lessons that everyone refers to when they are making important decisions. Each individual has their own words of wisdom written down in a notebook or on various sheets of paper. As humans grow they will learn that some things are more important than others and we cannot worry about the small troubles in the world.

Individuals who hold grudges will usually suffer from all types of medical problems such as ulcers and high blood pressure. When bad things happen to you it is sometimes better to just move on and learn a lesson from the experience. Being angry will not make things any better and it will ruin any future relationships with other people.

Remember to never burn bridges no matter how bad the situation may be. If someone worked for an employer that was cruel towards them they should never say bad things about that former boss. When a person is looking for a new job the new employer may wonder if you will say bad things about them if things do not work out.

Sometimes family members may get into heated arguments and they will say bad things that are negative in nature. An important thing to remember is to never make statements that you cannot take back. Many people will forgive each other but they will never forget harsh words that were said during a family battle.

There are many people who live by the rule of keeping their enemies at close range. This is very important in the business world as well as in the private lives of people. Many companies have taken over other companies by forming a fake friendship with their intended victim. People will also do this when they want to get revenge upon someone and unfortunately this plan works all of the time.

Even though every human being has an enemy its sometimes better not to extract revenge upon them. There may be some small form of satisfaction from getting revenge on someone but this will only be a temporary condition. A person looking to get revenge on another may end up hurting his enemy and other people who are totally innocent of the whole situation.

Many individuals have to also learn that they are born into this world alone and they must die alone. In this case it is never a great idea to rely on another human being. Sometimes it is a grand idea to fall in love but it is also an even greater idea to keep your independence. The person who loves with no strings attached will bounce back into action once the fling is over.

The list of life lessons may be very different for every human being on this planet. But in the end everyone should know that "people who live in glass houses should never throw stones." This statement should be in everyone's script since there are so many individuals who judge everyone else while forgetting their own twisted past. This is sometimes the reason why people become nuns or even priests.




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