Sunday, October 23, 2011

Learning To Be Alone By Yourself

By Rochelle Hardin


Learning to be alone doesn't always have to be a hard thing to do. Due to all of the influence that is trying to make people go together without thinking, it will be hard. However, how can you live with someone else when you can't live with yourself. This is important, since every decision you've made only has to go through one person, yourself.

There is no opposite to who you are, everything you are is what you need. Being without another can be difficult if you have to have someone around in order to make you feel confident, however there are a few points that have to be considered before we move forward happy and joyful about the circumstance.

The issue of loneliness is prevalent in this society. We are never by ourselves and if we were, what would you be scared of. Being scared of something you don't understand is the same as accepting an ignorant life. This doesn't mean that each person should never want to be with anyone, but it will free up the decision to share it with someone. If you don't depend on another for anything, then your love is pure and without dependence. This is the only free love.

Happiness is not found in someone else, it can be, but it doesn't have to be. Maybe being alone is your way to understand this. The ultimate truth that others job is not to satisfy you, but to help you reach your own conclusions. Being without is a way to realize that you are not. Maybe this circumstance has come to being because of this truth you have yet to realize.

The resistance to being without someone, is what causes doubt, fear and ultimately for someone to make the decision to jump into another's arms. Nobody is going to tell you that you should refuse a chemical love, maybe they should. You are not a result of someone else's mind. You make your own mind and your own life. Love yourself into life without another to hold your hand and you will be free, free from the dependence of another. That feeling you feel of being without, is a testament that something is giving you that feeling. How can you be alone, if you recognize what being alone is?

Learning to be alone has only ever cause a confusing life. Imagine what life would be without a challenge. If being without someone else to lean on is your challenge, then you must get over it to pursue your future. Lie with yourself, love yourself and move forward to a brighter day. Knowing this will liberate you and lift the veil of your mind. Be calm, be real and be loved by yourself. Read more about: learning to be alone




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