Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Take Steps Today To Live Your Dream Life

By Henry Okwo


Numerous self-help and personal improvement sources provide solid advice on how to achieve one's goals in life. However, reaching your goals requires action, it all begins with taking the first step. No matter how small a step it is, make sure it's a step in the right direction. So many people have dreams and goals they wish to achieve, some even know exactly what they need to do, however certain things prevent them from taking action. A dream basically remains just a dream till you take some kind of action.


Self-help means just that, self. There's always excuses people can make not to take action towards their personal improvement to live life on their terms. Something always comes up. It's not the right timing, maybe the economy is not stable or you need to more research. It's called paralysis by analysis. Some people can make excuses for days. It reminds you of grade school excuses for not doing your homework or adult excuses to miss work. Some people put so much focus on cooking up excuses, they might have as well completed the task instead of spending agonizing time trying to scheme up something credible.


People can throw themselves into action and continue to do research, learning something new every day. There are those that will even use financial reasons as an excuse not to take action. People have to realize in order to be successful they may have to do things that are beyond your comfort zone. That's a great experience since the brain enjoys challenge. You may also have to learn to overcome fear, that's often the biggest obstacle. If one is serious about living life on their terms, they may have to do things they've never done before.


Take solace that others have experienced what you are going through. Many others have been in your shoes, however they found a way to take action. They too could have made so many excuses, but they challenged themselves to take action and push towards their goals. One could utilize the same energy used in making excuses into taking the desired action. It's really a mental challenge just to get started on your dreams, once you have the courage to take action, it becomes easier.


Take even the slightest move forward to build up your confidence. Increased confidence will help combat your fear head on. Remember you had to overcome a remarkable obstacle in your past. As a baby you had to learn to walk. You didn't just bolt out of the gate. You went through a process. You first learned to crawl, then stand supporting your weight and eventually took your first baby steps. Like everybody else, those first steps were probably very wobbly before you got the complete hang of it.


Finding ways to take action towards realizing your goals may seem a foreign adventure, but you've experienced the same circumstances throughout your life. You went through the same process in learning how to ride a bike, also you did the same when doing your school assignments. Whenever your parents or the school system expected you to do something, you usually followed the process to get it done so why not find the way towards your desired life. Surely that's enough of an incentive to do it.


Discover avenues to make meaningful progress towards your life's goals. Take some kind of progressive action and don't procrastinate any longer. Once you start, you may be surprised how much you like it and it may turn out much easier than you first thought. You may find that you are better at doing it than whatever job you may be working. When you follow your true passion in life, it's like running with the wind at your back, you are no longer running into a head wind.


Don't let your mind trouble you and haunt you with questions and fear of inaction. Get started on your journey to success, then take your time to seek solutions to address those questions. Develop the courage to take action. Be assured that you have a strong track record of accomplishing tasks through your own devices. Truly believe you possess the power inside of you to achieve whatever you put your heart and mind to.




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