Sunday, August 26, 2012

Coaching And Mentoring Can Change Your Life

By Burk Esterhuyse


There are those rare individuals that just seem to smile all the time and project a mantle of general happiness and positivity in all that they do. Everything just seems to go their way and even when something bad does occur in their lives, they just appear to brush it off and push on.

Do you wish you can be one of those people and get rid of all of the emotional baggage that you carry with you everywhere you go?

Well you can stop wishing and start to employ verious coaching and mentoring techniques today to start on the trail to achieving better kind of living and inner peace. In fact you will doubtless find the satisfied and happy folks you come across use coaching and mentoring in their lives.

There are several different types of life coaching and mentoring methods. Most techniques are based mostly on behaviour programming. Fundamentally this implies that we are programmed to retort or behave in a certain way when supplied with a certain stimulus. Like Pavlov's dog which was trained that food was produced after a bell was rung. If the bell was not rung and the nosh was produced, the dog wouldn't respond. And so we behave in our regular lives. But behaviourists accept that revolutionizing the way you make a response to life will change the outcome of your actions.

Glance at the behaviour of the happy go lucky person and you will see it's not life that treats them differently but their approach and reaction to what happens in life that makes them different.

If you start behaving like them it logically follows that you too will have an improved chance at a stress-free life. After you have come to this realisation the problem becomes the simplest way to begin changing your behaviour.

A life coach can offer you the tools and teach you the simple way to employ different systems to have a rather more positive attitude and outlook on life. Don't become despondent if you don't see results immediately. Remember that it took years for you to learn the behaviour and it may take a little time to switch that behavior.




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