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When you find yourself saying "I miss my ex girlfriend" you need to find ways to move forward with your life. No matter how bad the break up was, there is life after your ex. Finding your way through the depression that follows the end of the relationship can be hard. That's why you need to take concrete actions to move forward.
If she hasn't indicated that she's ready to get back together with you after a month or so, you have to start thinking about the rest of your life. If you've learned that you can live without her, you may just want to look for a new girlfriend.
Know that it is important that you work hard to become friends with your ex again. This will build trust, and will help to make you closer to one another.
Getting your girlfriend back is not rocket science but it requires a cool head. Your emotions must be in check with a clear understanding of basic psychology. There are good reasons why couples reunite every single day and others fail miserable, the reason? Post break up behavior!
Don't beg! It shows a lack of respect for yourself and there's a good chance that she will see you as pathetic. Instead, address the reason why you broke up. If you did something that you feel remorseful for, apologize up front. Let her know you understand what went wrong and that you are willing to work on it. Remind her of the good aspects of your relationship. Let her know that the two of you can still have the best of relationships by working on any negative issues together.
Many guys don't realize that this power shift has occurred. While they are down in the dumps about the break up, they don't change their behavior pattern toward their ex. This is a big mistake.
An important instinct that you need to control is the instinct to yell and scream at your ex every time that you see them around. This is a very natural instinct, especially if you were shocked by the breakup and feel betrayed by your ex-lover. However, it is an instinct that you need to curb right here and right now if you ever want a decent shot at getting her back again. The more civil you are to her, the more likely it is that she will become interested in you once again. So return her things that were at your place when you next see her and always be prepared to laugh and be merry around her. They might not seem like big things to you right now, but they could be the tipping point in the future.
So now you should be an attractive man, whose girlfriend misses him and you are aware of what mistakes not to make again. The final way to get your ex back is just to get in contact with her again. You should have gone for one month with no contact. So when you call her to meet up make sure you have a friend mindset only. You should not be calling her with a 'lets jump back into a relationship' mindset. You should be more like "It would be nice to meet up for a coffee and catch up". Then when you meet her again she should be able to notice how much more interesting and attractive you have become. Remember she wants to be with the interesting attractive guy who has a lot of things going on in his life. You need to be that guy!
If she hasn't indicated that she's ready to get back together with you after a month or so, you have to start thinking about the rest of your life. If you've learned that you can live without her, you may just want to look for a new girlfriend.
Know that it is important that you work hard to become friends with your ex again. This will build trust, and will help to make you closer to one another.
Getting your girlfriend back is not rocket science but it requires a cool head. Your emotions must be in check with a clear understanding of basic psychology. There are good reasons why couples reunite every single day and others fail miserable, the reason? Post break up behavior!
Don't beg! It shows a lack of respect for yourself and there's a good chance that she will see you as pathetic. Instead, address the reason why you broke up. If you did something that you feel remorseful for, apologize up front. Let her know you understand what went wrong and that you are willing to work on it. Remind her of the good aspects of your relationship. Let her know that the two of you can still have the best of relationships by working on any negative issues together.
Many guys don't realize that this power shift has occurred. While they are down in the dumps about the break up, they don't change their behavior pattern toward their ex. This is a big mistake.
An important instinct that you need to control is the instinct to yell and scream at your ex every time that you see them around. This is a very natural instinct, especially if you were shocked by the breakup and feel betrayed by your ex-lover. However, it is an instinct that you need to curb right here and right now if you ever want a decent shot at getting her back again. The more civil you are to her, the more likely it is that she will become interested in you once again. So return her things that were at your place when you next see her and always be prepared to laugh and be merry around her. They might not seem like big things to you right now, but they could be the tipping point in the future.
So now you should be an attractive man, whose girlfriend misses him and you are aware of what mistakes not to make again. The final way to get your ex back is just to get in contact with her again. You should have gone for one month with no contact. So when you call her to meet up make sure you have a friend mindset only. You should not be calling her with a 'lets jump back into a relationship' mindset. You should be more like "It would be nice to meet up for a coffee and catch up". Then when you meet her again she should be able to notice how much more interesting and attractive you have become. Remember she wants to be with the interesting attractive guy who has a lot of things going on in his life. You need to be that guy!
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