Thursday, December 13, 2012

How Cords Of Attachment Can Affect Your Life

By Celia Hall


Many people at some point in their lives they have had these relationships. They are the type that hold a person back, they bar you from doing anything constructive with their lives. When a person thinks about these relationships they always have the feelings of anger, resentment, and hurt. These relationships usually were as a result of a bitter ending between the two parties. Not many people have an explanation as to the reason why these people get under their skin. The reason is that the cords of attachment are what bind these people.

All people have an aura. This is characterized by an electromagnetic energy around the person. There is a constant flow of energy in and out of this aura all the time. When an individual comes across another individual energy moves from your aura to the aura of that person, the same as energy moves from their aura to yours. This flow of energy creates a bond between the two of you. This bond that is formed is a tie that created a bind between the two individuals.

A positive bond between two individuals is known as a spiritual bond. This bond makes a person more productive in their lives. It is usually as a result of the positive influence one individual has over another. This bond creates joy and a feeling of sheer happiness. Having the person in your life is a positive factor and most people tend to enjoy having the individuals in their lives.

Negative bonds are as present as the positive ones. The negative bonds have the out most negative impact on individuals. They leave one in a state of depression, and one finds himself or herself caught in the web of counterproductive emotions, actions, and thoughts. The health of the individual is usually at risk and all the energy that one has is drained away.

The negative bonds can be cut. This is one way of ending the nightmare of carrying these bonds with you. The negative energy is set free and an individual is now free to live their lives as they would so please. The cords however, cannot be severed by evading contact with the person. Just remember that no matter the distance the cords will be there.

They say that time heals all wounds well it does not.no distance between you and the person will help you forget. A traumatic experience like rape leaves the victim distraught and out of sorts. The cords will always be there unless you decide it is time you finally cut through them.

The termination of the relationship with the person is not guaranteed when a person decides to cut the cord. The process is mostly involved in helping one to deal and to heal in relationships that cannot be done away with. The relationships include the likes of those between our parents and children. Marriage can be saved through the use of this technique. Also the relationships between intimate couples can be resolved using this.

To benefit from cord cutting, seek help from a person who is known as a healer. This can be a spiritual healer, a counselor, a psychotherapist, a life coach or a holistic healer who is trained in the techniques that involve cord cutting. The healer can help you with various kinds of problems from a serious trauma to the reason why you do not get along with a certain work mate. Many healers have a high success rate in helping people cut the cords of attachment.




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