Friday, July 8, 2011

How to Deal With Guilt Learning To Live A Life Of Freedom

By Burton Rager


We have all suffered from guilt at some point in our life. Each of us need to discover how to deal with guilt.Some guilt is real because of our actions and some is imposed on us by others. Can you think about a time you felt guilty when you were not at fault? Some individuals attempt to burden others with guilt to lift themselves up. Regularly their allegations start with a grain of truth. They deform the truth to place the blame on you. Feeling the necessity to prove your innocence can be very unpleasant as well.

Sometimes our guilt is the result of moral failings. The list of wrongdoings can be quite long and can range in our minds from little missteps to sins that appear worse, or have worse implications. Infrequently we can excuse our actions by comparing our shortcomings to those of others. Feeling guilty is healthy. If we haven't any feelings linked with doing wrong, what does that suggest about us? Folk who appear to suffer no guilt or have no conscience are often labeled as toughened criminals, cold-hearted, or anti-social. They do not feel guilty. In this sense we can embrace our sensations of guilt and set about to alter our behaviour of our wrong doing or immorality.

Ever tried to change your own bad behavior, or lacks, but find yourself repeating, "I am sorry" or "I will not do that again?" I know I have. I say I'm sorry and guarantee myself that I will not repeat the same behaviors. Yet not much time passes before I'm in the same scenario again. I'm besieged in a cycle of sinning, feeling guilt, and trying to change myself.

Sometimes we do things that we cannot excuse and that appear unforgiveable. Forgiving yourself and being guilt free may seem impossible. Perhaps it's an affair. You cheated on the love of your life, your children's father or mother. You have caused hurt and deep discomfort to those you love most. Maybe you or a girl became pregnant and chose abortion only to find out you're feeling bothered nighttime and daytime by your call. You are encircled by your wrong doing and nothing seems to ease the pain and the guilt that is tearing at your actual soul. Guilt like so many hurts in life robs us of the life we would like to live.

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