Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Ways To Know If A Woman Wants You

By Chris Miller


Is it difficult reading the mind of the girl you have been spending your time with? You keep on asking yourself "does she want me". Her behavior may be interpreted as playing it cool or being coy. More guys have gone crazy and lost sleep over this than any other dilemma in dating. If you're in a slump, here i will discuss some tips on how to find out if she wants you.

Signals to Look Out For

One giveaway that a lady is paying attention is if she gives you the top to toe look. You will notice that a girl looks at you from your face to your feet when she is interested in you. She's taking a quick look at your style, your body build, your fashion sense and how you would look like in the nude. Yes, it's highly likely that she's thinking the same thing you're wondering when you meet a fine-looking girl for the first time.

You also need to be vigilant about the way she looks at you sideways. If a girl does not want you to know she is checking you out, she does this. She may also touch her hair or tuck a strand in. It's not that a lock is out of place from her head. She's feeling conscious of your presence. The same thing applies when you approach a woman and she seems to sit up straighter.

Women show signs of attraction discretely. Touching might be as simple as patting your arm. The same goes for pinching and poking while you're joking around. When a girl touches you, she's subconsciously testing how your skin would feel on hers.

What She Tells You

When she asks nosy questions, she's either a private investigator or she's interested in you. Prying questions include the very delicate ones like if you have a girlfriend or a spouse. Normally, a girl wouldn't ask if you have a girlfriend if she isn't attracted.

The flirtatious chuckle when you say something funny is a sign of interest. Girls do this for a variety of reasons, but they only do it because they're enjoying the company of the guy they're speaking with. Even when she tells you she is not attracted at all, her actions should tell you otherwise.

Following the First Meeting

Keeping in touch means there's something there you can pursue. The point here is, a woman could flake out after the initial meeting. You should keep yourself from calling her until she responds. How do you keep connected? Through texting, of course. Texting will never reveal your edginess, unlike a phone call.

Text her on the first day and do not worry if she does not text back right away. If she does not text back after a few days, you can safely assume that she has changed her mind. It's just that she may have connected with someone else. In this instance, move on and find another girl to banter with.




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