Saturday, February 26, 2011

Ideas To Ease The Pain After A Breakup

By Mildred D. Ogle


In a relationship, we sometimes feel great happiness but on the other hand, we also feel the great sadness it brings when relationships end. This is where each and every person is different. We all feel the pain but there are some people who tend to go on with their lives while others have a harder time coping.

You may feel like you are alone in this world but there are people who are willing to help you. These are your friends and your family. Plus, with these tips, you will surely get your life back in no time.

Accept the fact that the relationship is over. You might feel the compulsive need to deny what is right in front of you at first. And although it is normal for the first couple of weeks but as soon as it transcends to months, there should be realization that denying things are delusional already.

Put yourself out there and enjoy the moment. Some people like to close the door and listen to sad songs but the true therapeutic way of dealing with pain is to go out and be happy even for just a moment.

You may want to blame your former partner for doing this to you but blaming does not get you anywhere. It will only prolong the feeling of hatred and even intensify it. You are giving yourself reason to hate someone without any logic other than the fact that you two have broken up.

Stay away from anyone who is connected to your ex and that includes your ex. People may feel the urge to call their exes late at night just to cry and tell them they want them back or it has been their routine to do so and forgot that they have broken up. Try to resist that urge and do something else.

Express yourself in words. Either you can write down what you truly feel inside on a diary or you can shout at an open space where no one can hear you. Doing this will help you remove a thorn from your chest and it'll make you feel lighter.

Gather your friends and enjoy a good time together. You can pick up a new hobby or you can rejoin your basketball team or any sport that you like. Sweating it all out can do wonders to your body and soul.




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