Friday, February 25, 2011

Tips Concerning Relationships: Harmonizing Romance And Friendship

By William M. Sosa


We all know that as a couple certain decisions should be made together and they should put everything in a personal level. But, there are certainly things that should not be overly done by couples that makes them annoying to others especially to people who are close to them like family and friends.

Couples usually think alike which is one of the reasons why they have this sort of unspoken understanding to each other. But, when they begin to morph into a single person. It is that time that you should try to ask your friend how it happened. Couples who begin to act as one person is most likely dependent on the other which can be a bad thing.

If one of your friends has been invited, expect that his girlfriend will also appear. That is okay if you are also casual friends with his girlfriend or she is part of your inner circle of friends, but if you want to gather your friends for some intimate dinner or party then you better try to talk to your friend about bringing himself only.

If you find yourself watching your friend and his girlfriend kissing and groping each other, it is time that you put some senses into them and tell them that they should not be doing that around your friends as it may seem inappropriate to your single friends.

It might come off as funny but when you are in a group of friends and one of them brings their partner, you all want to move fast but when that happens, those two will begin to walk slowly and really walk slowly that others begin to complain whether or not they can still beat the ticking clock.

Another irksome thing that couples do to you is when they want you to get into a relationship like they have. It can be a friendly gesture for them but if you do not want to be in a relationship right now and they keep on pressuring you, you can easily stomp them by showing how much you love being single.

Ever had that group conversation where your friends are on the couch and a friend of yours is talking to his girlfriend and they giggle with their own little joke that nobody finds funny except it is a bit annoying? Add that to this list.

Take the time to be with your friends and your friends only. Set the time to spend it with your girlfriend but never take a day off from your friends because in the end, they will be the only ones left for you and if you desert them, you will have no one.




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