Sunday, January 6, 2013

For Assistance With Anger Management Royal Oak Residents Should Consult Local Practitioners

By Katelyn Buckner


If you need help with anger management Royal Oak counsellors will be able to suggest very effective strategies. Some people find it difficult to contain their rage under certain circumstances. Without help, this can lead to potentially dangerous situations. Careers, relationships with others and the overall quality of a person's life can all be affected by the destructive force of angry outbursts.

Some of the potentially dangerous situations which arise from having an uncontrolled temper include domestic and workplace abuse, fighting, arguing and road rage. Being angry is a legitimate emotion which may invoke a powerful response. This was once an aid to survival, allowing us to fight and defend ourselves. Both external and internal events can trigger outbursts. A teenager's untidy room, a cancelled flight or brooding about personal problems can all impact in those who haven't learnt to channel anger in more acceptable ways.

Being angry is not necessarily negative but when the emotion cannot be controlled, violent or emotional outbursts may result. Acceptable methods of venting rage vary between individuals, families and cultures. Counsellors will teach you ways to cope with these feelings. An incident which leads to an angry outburst can be dealt with in a healthy and non-violent method.

Anger needs to be dealt with and expressed appropriately. Stating your needs clearly and calmly in a respectful and non-judgemental manner may make it possible for your needs to be met. Converting the negative energy of rage into constructive activity helps some people deal with their emotions. Walking, bike-riding or jogging can release the stored tension for some. Suppressing anger can cause the emotion to turn inward and result in disorders such as depression or hypertension. Learning relaxation techniques can be very helpful.

Anger isn't always accompanied by violent behaviour. Some people become withdrawn and morose. Some display cynicism or passive-aggressive behaviours because of continued suppression of anger. These attributes affect the victim in every sphere of interaction with others. Relationships are affected at every level.

When confronted with a challenging situation, counsellors may suggest that you speak in a low, controlled voice. Don't shout but breathe deeply. If you feel you will soon lash out, walk away and stay away until you feel calmer. Pinpoint what is causing you such strong emotions. Once you feel more at ease, you may be able to discuss the problem again.

Learn the triggers that make you erupt with rage. Anger can be expressed in appropriate ways. Speaking up at the right time in a polite, controlled manner can prevent your emotions escalating to a dangerous level. Be assertive without being aggressive. Voicing your emotions is the quickest and surest way to defuse them. State the problem clearly to the other person.

Being able to forgive will help you let go of angry feelings. Hanging onto your anger can lead to serious health issues. Being physically active results in the release of endorphins which promote feelings of peace and self-esteem. Joining a support group will also enable you to connect with people who have similar issues to your own. By seeking out anger management Royal Oak residents can find help and relief from the restrictive issues of angry outbursts.




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